August 13, 2012

The truth comes out...

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Our whole trip to Europe was just amazing.  One place stands out in my mind though, as the best part of our trip. Italy and the time we spent there, the places we went, memories we made, can only be described as....magical?  Incredible?  Life-changing?  Ok scratch that, I can't even describe it!  As a former "Paris is the city for me" type person, to say that Italy is way better than Paris is big.  Really big.  The two really can't be compared, they are so obviously different, but I gauge places on how they make me feel, and then I guess I rate their awesomeness from that point!

Don't get me wrong, Paris is glamorous, fun, and makes me feel like a rich girl when I am there, even though I am not!  LOL.  It's always fun to FEEL like that, right?  Even with $20 in my pocket, if I stroll down the Champs Elysee in a cute outfit, I can feel like a millionaire!  I've been to Paris 3 times now, I am a very lucky girl.  I've loved it more and more every time.  Paris is a beautiful life!  Does that even make sense?

Then, we went to Italy.  I was skeptic at first.  Nothing could beat out my love for the French!  Then, we went to Lucca...


It was unreal...other-worldly...


Beautiful...

Then we went to the Cinque Terre on the Italian Riviera...


We couldn't believe our eyes...


Amazing...

A real world exists out of this place?

Then, we went wine tasting in Tuscany...


and thought, we could live like this...


Eat like this, drink like this, live like this...stroll this street...


Making wine...entertaining tourists...


Living in that house...


Lovely!

Italy had me at hello.  Not in those hot, touristy, areas...no no no, don't go to those places, go to these places - the unspoiled, not-quite-yet-discovered stars of Italy!  It made me want to live like they live...the Italians we met, they live so simply, and so purely.  There are no Targets (ok ok, sniff, I do love me some Target!) no Taco Bells, no Shoprites or Payless or any of that crap.  Nothing main stream.  They make their own clothes, make their own food, make their own wine, and get water from fountains in the street!  What a life!!  The towns we visited on the Riviera, some of those people have NEVER left that town.  Never.  Self-sufficiency at it's finest!

Ok, I think I'd die if I couldn't travel, I don't want to be that extreme.  I do want to adopt their way of life.  Heck, one day, I want a house in Tuscany and dag-nab-it we are going to get one!  It'll take 20 years to do it, but we'll get one.  It's made us realize how much we'd love a HOUSE.  What a YARD.  and SPACE.  Not a cookie cutter neighborhood or anything like that, we want something out a little further, but not too far of course.  This is all a dream though, we aren't moving for a while, but we have the itch.  It's there, ticking away!

So, I'm trying to slowly adopt some Italian ways.  I started by buying a few cookbooks.  I've already read through one.  I'll post about it tomorrow, but it has completely enchanted me.  Completely.  I've already made half a dozen recipes from it.  LOVE IT!

All this to say that, when asked "Where is your favorite place in the world?" you will get "Italy" as a response instead of "Paris" or "the lake" or any of those old answers.  I left my heart in Italy and one day, I'll have to go back and get it;)  By heart, I mean...everything...I just want to be in Italy forever!

You'll see the effects of it on the blog, I am sure.  Recipes and wine-making (ok ok, I don't know about that) and little Italian quirks here and there...I know I'm Irish and all but I think I am Italian in my soul.  I'm so smitten, it's funny!

Cheerio!

August 12, 2012

Up and coming!

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My blog is getting a new look!  I'm working with someone on a CUSTOM design.  Doesn't that make me sound fancy?  For the first time, this old bliggity blog made me some (a very small amount) of money, so I am investing it back into this babe and getting a nice new look.  I can't wait to see what it looks like when it's done!

BTW, isn't it a lovely day out today?  I love the days that I can sit on my deck and drink coffee and hear summery sounds.  It makes my day THAT much better!

I'll be swimming all day with Ash, my parents, and Jonathan & Krystal.  Dave worked last night like a champ so he has to sleep all day - boo!  He has tonight off though, that is good!  Hope you are all enjoying your Sunday!

I know I will...


Has a cookbook ever changed your life?  Just a question?  ;)

August 9, 2012

Couponing revisited


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If there is one thing I know for sure about couponing, is that it takes up so much time.  I love doing it, I promise, but the time it takes me to shop or even organize to shop is agonizing sometimes!  I can't just run out to the store, I have to sit and clip and plan and get a list and have a way to organize the coupons while I am out.  To be honest, since April or so, I've kinda let it go by the wayside, only half hearted-ly doing the whole clip, shop, save thing. I loathe myself every time I check out at a store and don't have a coupon to save with, when I know there are SO many coupons out there to be had and saved with!

So, I am on a journey to re-create my process.  I need to make it easier, less complicated, so that I use coupons.  We need to save money, and there are so many savings to be had when it comes to groceries, household stuff, clothes, school supplies, shopping online...everything!  This will probably be a long process since I am just not sure what works and what doesn't.  It's been a process actually, and here is what I've learned so far:

1.  Information is overwhelming!  There are a lot of coupon websites out there.  I need to weed down the sites that I look at for savings.  Not to limit myself, but to make my process easier.  Here are a few sites that I know I want to stick with because I've tried them and like them and know how they work.  I'd ideally like to have maybe 10 sites that are my go to sites, so I need to research some more!

My Coupon Website Arsenal:

Krazy Coupon Lady - These ladies are always posting their trips and freebies and brag trips and it's inspiring as well as informative. 

Couponing to Disney - Since I am a huge Disney fan, I love the Disney twist on this.  She saves and puts her actual savings into a fund for their trip!  She posts all the normal coupon stuff, but also lots of Disney and kid-friendly savings as well.

Deal Seeking Mom - this is a super site, you can find every printable coupon from her database.  I love this one a lot around the holidays, TONS of postings on gifts!  This site has a lot to look through, it's very comprehensive.

Frugal Girls - Another one I love around the holidays, always posting great deals everyday though!

Coupon Chief - this is one of those cool sites where promo codes are posted.  This is for online shopping and savings, which is something I do a lot.  How many times do you shop on Old Navy or Amazon or Best Buy online and think, "I wonder if there is a random promo code for this store?"  I do it all the time.  I used to just search "promo code for..." in Google but after finding Coupon Chief, I decided I liked it better than the others (codes can be finicky or old on some of those other sites)  It's my go to promo code place.  Just search for the store you are looking for in their database, or browse their options, there are TONS!  It's awesome when I can save an unexpected 10% or get free shipping on an online order, this site is great for that kind of savings.  This is going to be great around Christmas too!

Living Rich with Coupons - I like this one a lot because her store list is extensive.  I usually shop at ShopRite and Wegmans and she always has the weekly deals up for both.  

2.  I need a system that works!  I've tried the binder, you can see all about that here, but that didn't seem to work for me after all.  Live and learn.  I know some swear by it, but I found that I was clipping so many coupons, sorting them, only to throw them all away after 6 weeks.  One thing I know for sure is that I can't clip everything anymore.  There are only certain things we buy, and just because I have a coupon doesn't mean I'll buy it.  Sometimes it might, but most of the time I won't.  I need to decide on what to clip and what to toss or give away, and stick with it.  I like to be frugal and stockpile, but I don't want to be wasteful either.

3.  Keeping things online makes things less messy.  With the invention of great sites like Cellfire, the aforementioned Coupon Chief, Shoprite coupons, and Safeway's new Just for U coupons, the process CAN be less paper-take-over-your-house mess.   I love how I can save without clipping a thing.  Cellfire and Safeway coupons you can just load right onto your loyalty card and when you buy the item, the savings comes off automatically at the register.  Genius!

So, my goal is to try a few new organizing, clipping, storing, using strategies over the next few weeks and I'll let you know what works for me.  It is definitely one of those whatever-works-best-for-you situations.  Maybe you love the binder?  Maybe you do everything online?  Maybe you don't care?  LOL.   Couponing is something I do not want to give up, I love saving money way too much, but I have to make it WORK for me.  I'll let you know how that goes;)

Cheerio!

August 6, 2012

That was a nice day!

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Today was a much needed, low drama day:)   Nothing huge to write about or report, but life was good in a way that we could enjoy and appreciate today!  Sort of like a stay-cation.  We were going to go to the beach with Ashley at some point after our big Europe trip, but life (when I say life, I mean flooded basements, contractors/waterproofers/HOA drama, UTIs, allergic reactions, unforeseen financial stuff, deciding to send Ash to her $ private school one more year, etc) happened and it doesn't look like we'll get away on a formal family vacation until fall or winter.  So, today, being one of the only days we were all here and really didn't have anything official to do, we decided to do something fun. 

My lovely bro and sis in law (hey J&K!) have a pool and were nice enough to let us come up and swim today even when they weren't there.  So, trying to be in a "vacation" mind, this morning I woke up and made a big breakfast, biscuits and gravy and eggs.  Just like we were on vacation!  Yum! 

PS You may notice me talk about food A LOT in the next few days, the meds I am on give me such a huge appetite and the major munchies, it's terrible!  I've been cooking and baking and shopping and oy...I'm trying to exercise a lot, to off-set it.  I've actually decided to stop taking them all because last night I woke up with such intense hunger, I couldn't get full or get back to sleep, it was bad.  Goodbye meds, I'm better, I don't need you!! Ok sidebar over...

After eating bfast and getting some morning things done, I packed up a cooler full of goodies and we headed over to my brother's house and had a lovely day swimming and sunning, just the 3 of us.  We swam for about 4 hours, just chilling and laughing and enjoying the day.  It was exactly the sort of day I wish could fill our summer, and I am determined to have a few more before school starts again in just 2 short weeks (how did THAT happen?) 

I even read through a design magazine!  It was awesome!  If you love home decor, and color, the Color Made Easy magazine at Lowe's is pure eye candy.


Honestly, go get it if you like this stuff.  You won't be sorry!! 

We stayed until maybe 5:30 - said a quick hello to my bro as he came home from work, and then whisked home for dinner.  I had 2 hungry "kids" by then, I was actually in control of my med-made-munchies at this point but I was alone in my content to stay all hours in the water and glorious late afternoon glow.  When Ash wants to leave a pool to eat, that's a big sign;)  On our way up to the pool earlier, we stopped at the Wilson's market for corn and fresh veggies, and we had crabs waiting in our fridge from my MIL.  I guess they were calling us home!

It was such a nice evening to sit outside too!  Lately, all the nice nights have been when Dave has had to work, or I couldn't go outside, or something, but tonight the stars aligned, if only for a little while, so that we could have dinner on our deck!  Look at how pretty those crabs are...this pic is so cute, I didn't stage it at all, I swear!  The crossword and all, it's hilarious!


Here are Dave & Ashley, all happy to be eating that yumminess.  Yes, we have crabs, corn, hot dogs, burgers, grilled onions, the whole she-bang!


Oh, Did ya catch my "only for a little while" up there?  Yes, well, all good things come to an end.  We were having our very nice dinner together, on a perfect summer evening, when Ash looked down to her left and said - UM.  We didn't know how loaded that UM was!!  She was so calm, but very loud.  In the chair next to her, you can sorta see it in the pic above with the white towel on it, there was a bee's nest the size of my fist just dangling off of it.  Right next to Ashley's leg.  With at least a dozen bees just buzzing around.  YIKES!  That effectively ended our nice night on the deck.  LOL.  Thankfully, we sprayed and dispatched of the nest and no one was hurt.  We recouped with dessert (Snowballs for them, Berger cookies for me) and Harry Potter 1. 

That was a nice day.  Isn't lovely when you can say that?  Thank you Jesus, for a nice day!

August 4, 2012

Ouch, I'm Allergic!


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From the words of Will Ferrell as Robert Goulet (When the bee stings...OUCH I'm ALLERGIC! Except I wasn't stung...) This week has been one of my worse I can remember.  I have joined the millions that have had a random allergic reaction.  I've done a LOT of reading this week about it, and I have read in my research that the probability of these types of attacks are about 15% in a person, as long as their parent does not have the allergy, so I don't want to freak anyone out!

The day after I got home from Europe, I went straight to Express Care to get help for a UTI I'd been living with for about 5 days while we were away.  It was bad infection by the time we returned, and Express Care Rx me an antibiotic called Bactrim which is a Sulfa based drug, and also some other med that turned my pee orange (sorry TMI) this helped the pain of the UTI.  Well, I took this medicine as prescribed from Saturday all the way through the next Saturday and then again on Sunday morning.  About an hour after taking my dose on Sunday, I felt an itch under my wedding rings.  I took them off and put some anti-itch cream on, and thought nothing of it.  Sometimes allergens get stuck there and the skin gets inflamed.  Then, a few hours later, I was getting ready to go out to the store with Ashley when I noticed 3 or 4 more bumps on my left wrist.  I thought I was getting attacked by a mosquito in the house!  Soon after that, I found 10-15 more bumps on the back of my neck.  My hands started to itch like crazy and swell 3 times their size.  Finally I woke Dave up (napped from working) and told him what was going on.  He told me to take benadryl and sleep.

I took his advice, and a few hours later I woke up with a huge top lip.  Seriously, it was bad.  I'm going to bite my pride in the butt and show you, just don't tell me how much you laughed at me because I'm sorta sensitive about it;)  Seriously, I've been crying for days, lol.


I know know, its huge!  My eyes and cheeks too.  Maybe if you don't know me well you can't tell?  I usually don't have much of an upper lip at all...and my face was so super puffy, it's disgusting!


Ok let me help my ego a bit, see?  Here's a nice pic of me in Italy, all happy and non allergic and looking cute, see how small my top lip normally is?  YIKES!


Anyways, we were still thinking it was a weird reaction to mosquitoes at this point, they really love me so it wasn't too weird to think one got in the house somehow during my busy day and attacked me.  We debated going to Express Care, I called my mom to ask her...since we just weren't sure and she said to get the heck up and go!

See?  They look like bug bites?!  This is nothing compared to what was coming, sorry, I have no pics of that part!

Anyways....

Good thing I did go!  I went in there, and of course was an emotional, hysterical mess (because I hate doctors and being sick and being poked and prodded and I had already been there a week ago for the UTI) Dave had to drop Ash off at his moms so he could take care of me and I thought I could handle going in alone at first...lol...poor EC people, I cried all over them!  The doctor there said this was no mosquito attack, I was having an allergic reaction to something.  We went over everything but she said she was 99% sure it was the Bactrim they Rxed me for the UTI.  Allergy to Sulfa drugs is apparently really common.  She told me to keep taking the benadryl, max dose, until the swelling and bumps went away and she gave me a steroid that usually helps with attacks like this.  She checked my heart and breathing and everything, and all was ok, so she sent me home with instructions to rest, take the meds, and get to the ER with any changes.

I can't even imagine what would've happen if we DID NOT go to EC and I would've taken my dose of Bactrim that night.  It was already all up in my system for about 9 days, who knows?!  I drugged myself that night and Dave kept a close watch on me, and everything seem to be fine.

Monday I woke up, drowsy, and still puffy in my hands, it hurt to hold anything...


My hands are not that chubs!  I couldn't (still cant) wear my wedding rings.  I sorta trudged through Monday, Dave ended up calling out of work because I hadn't deflated yet.  We just sat around being lazy, and then after dinner, my body exploded.  Seriously.  I had a few hives on my knees and elbows, and decided to try an oatmeal bath to help the itch.  By the time I got out of the bath, I think I had over 300 hives just all over, it was terrible.  I kept my cool, and just lightly called Dave upstairs to look at me.  We just didn't know what to do?!  Even him being a nurse, was this an emergency?  I could breathe, I could talk, I wasn't hysterical, but I was worried.

We decided to be safe and go.  We couldn't predict if it would get worse later, and it's best not to play around with stuff like that!  We got to the ER and they said it was a good thing I came in.  We waited, and waited, and waited, even though they said that I'd be a fast track back to a room...I was annoyed with every old person with chest pain that came in after me because of course, they took them back right away.  I know, I know...I'm younger and healthier and they could be going into cardiac arrest, but at that point I was so itchy and miserable I couldn't even think straight.

Finally one of Dave's co-workers showed us back to a room and the DR got to me right away.  He said I was having a reaction, he agreed that it was the Bactrim and that I could experience symptoms for days.  He was worried about the hives and asked me if I wanted the fast treatment or the slow.  It was already 1am at this point, and I had had the hives since before 7pm, so of course I picked the quick fix.  Which was the Epipen.  Ouch.  They hooked me up to IV's of stuff, antihistamines and fluids and then jabbed me with the pen.  It didn't really hurt, but it was shocking.  They had to keep me until about 2am to watch my heart, because the adrenaline can do really crazy things to your heart rate, and then they sent me home.  With instructions to keep taking the benadryl and prednisone (steroid) as directed by Express Care and to come back if things didn't get better soon.

 All hooked up!


Home, resting from ER trip #1...I was a hard stick for an IV.  IVs hurt, FYI.  They hurt!  Yes, that big splotch is a huge hive.

Tuesday was better, during the day at least.  I didn't sleep much because of the Epipen.  The site where they stuck me was unbelievably sore, plus adrenaline doesn't let you sleep. But,  I thought things were better!  We even tried to go out that night, to see Batman which we've been dying to see, ready to enjoy a semi-normal night together.  Well, right before we left, I started itching again.  The hives came not too much later, we got as far as the parking lot of Regal and had to come home.  I was too nervous to go out like that.  As the night wore on, I got worse.  More hives, and much more hysterical at that point.  I had only slept maybe 5 hours in the last 36, so you can imagine my state of mind.  I had to keep taking cold showers and bath to help, it was something all the Docs told me to try if it got too bad.  Well, if you didn't know, taking cold showers is hell.  Pure hell.  I ended up freezing on the floor, face down in our room, in front of the fan, sobbing.  Dave told me to take my meds, take the benadryl and try to sleep.  He debated taking me back to the hospital, but I couldn't even talk to him to tell him what I wanted or needed.  He sat with me for a while, rubbing my head like a child and checking on me.  I think I dozed on and off all night, never really achieving anything close to sleep.  He said he heard me scratch all night:/

Next morning, I was still covered in hives that were turning into huge red spots.  This had been the longest bout yet, without any relief from any meds.  I ended back up on the floor face down, sobbing again.  Dave knew it was time.  He tried calling my mom, to say HELP ME WITH THIS GIRL!  LOL.  He really was a trooper.  The itching was so bad, I think I almost overdosed on Benadryl.  I was willing to do anything to get it to stop, and that is bad.  My feet were covered with tons of tiny hives that morphed into one huge one.  Are you itching yet?  LOL.  Dave drove me back to the ER, just as tired as I was, and got my parents on the phone.  Mom showed up ready to fight for me to stay at the hospital.  I was a mess, she was a mess, Dave was exhausted.  The doctor this time around was just as nice, suggested we try all new meds and no Epipen, no quick fixes here.  They hooked me up to all sorts of stuff and really watched me.  They told me they couldn't keep me, usually allergic reactions aren't "admit-able material" or something, unless you can't breathe or something.  But they did keep me for a few hours just to watch.  The new meds helped, almost immediately, and the DR promised she would send me home with all the same stuff, so I would know for sure it would work.  She also Rxed me Ambien for sleep, because as this point I had only 6-7 hours of sleep between Monday am and Wednesday pm. 

Mom drove me home so Dave could go to Target and get my meds and the millions of things we've needed all week but couldn't get out to buy.  I took everything and the hives stayed away, praise the Lord!!  I had my first experience with Ambien, which was definitely interesting!  I react fairly funny to sleeping pills!  It was the best relief I had in days, and I think I was giddy and drugged on NOT itching!!  No scratching!!  Thursday was great, nothing came back, although I had phantom itches all day, there were no red marks, not a one!  Mom and Dad came over to check up on me, Dave got to sleep, his work (the hospital, lol) was so understanding and let him stay home with me all week because he didn't want to leave me unattended after all this, just in case.  Thursday passed, Friday came and besides the effects of the meds, I've been fine.

I'm happy to say I've been hive free since Wednesday night, Dear Jesus I am knocking on wood and saying a millions prayers to keep that the case!  However, the regimen of medications they have me on is terrible.  I'm on a different steroid that has tons of side effects that I have to take a lot, an antihistamine that keeps me awake, anti-nausea meds that keep the pills down, and some sort of Pepcid that is another type of antihistamine, and then the Ambien for sleep.  Until today, I've been terrified to go out in the heat, or take hot baths, or even see people really.  I'm so over emotional, it's not funny.  It's the meds of course, and the trauma that I've been through.  Two ER visits for me is enough for a life time, I really hate hospitals!  But, this week, I honestly didn't want to leave because they helped me feel better, you know that is when I'm really not feeling well!!  Yikes!  All seems to be quiet right now though, and I am enjoying that.  

Anyways, that was my experience with an allergic reaction.  I'm telling you now, if someone wants to put you on Bactrim for antibiotic treatment for infection, ask for something else.  I've heard so many stories about it, it's best to stay away from it.  I'm still scared that it's swimming around in my system after taking it for so long, but as of tomorrow morning it'll have been a week since I've taken it, so hopefully it's gone.  I have a follow up appointment with a PCP on Tuesday, and they will probably refer me to an allergist, so I can be tested for sure for the allergy.

Thanks for everyone who has been commenting, texting, and praying for me.  It wasn't life threatening or even that big of a deal, but to me it was pure misery for a bit!  I can't even explain the feeling of the itching and delirium that it brought about, it was one of the worse things I've ever experienced.  I'm usually not a constant bummer or downer, but this week was so rough!

Things are looking better now and I am looking forward to enjoying my few last weeks of summer, and even looking forward to a new school year.  I'm thankful to be healthy again!  I am also thankful and blessed to have such a wonderful husband who has taken care of me all week and even dealt with my emotions and drama these past few days.  It's been tough but we've gotten through it!!

Cheers to being better, hopefully, and putting this whole nightmare behind me!!  Behind us!