August 6, 2012

That was a nice day!

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Today was a much needed, low drama day:)   Nothing huge to write about or report, but life was good in a way that we could enjoy and appreciate today!  Sort of like a stay-cation.  We were going to go to the beach with Ashley at some point after our big Europe trip, but life (when I say life, I mean flooded basements, contractors/waterproofers/HOA drama, UTIs, allergic reactions, unforeseen financial stuff, deciding to send Ash to her $ private school one more year, etc) happened and it doesn't look like we'll get away on a formal family vacation until fall or winter.  So, today, being one of the only days we were all here and really didn't have anything official to do, we decided to do something fun. 

My lovely bro and sis in law (hey J&K!) have a pool and were nice enough to let us come up and swim today even when they weren't there.  So, trying to be in a "vacation" mind, this morning I woke up and made a big breakfast, biscuits and gravy and eggs.  Just like we were on vacation!  Yum! 

PS You may notice me talk about food A LOT in the next few days, the meds I am on give me such a huge appetite and the major munchies, it's terrible!  I've been cooking and baking and shopping and oy...I'm trying to exercise a lot, to off-set it.  I've actually decided to stop taking them all because last night I woke up with such intense hunger, I couldn't get full or get back to sleep, it was bad.  Goodbye meds, I'm better, I don't need you!! Ok sidebar over...

After eating bfast and getting some morning things done, I packed up a cooler full of goodies and we headed over to my brother's house and had a lovely day swimming and sunning, just the 3 of us.  We swam for about 4 hours, just chilling and laughing and enjoying the day.  It was exactly the sort of day I wish could fill our summer, and I am determined to have a few more before school starts again in just 2 short weeks (how did THAT happen?) 

I even read through a design magazine!  It was awesome!  If you love home decor, and color, the Color Made Easy magazine at Lowe's is pure eye candy.


Honestly, go get it if you like this stuff.  You won't be sorry!! 

We stayed until maybe 5:30 - said a quick hello to my bro as he came home from work, and then whisked home for dinner.  I had 2 hungry "kids" by then, I was actually in control of my med-made-munchies at this point but I was alone in my content to stay all hours in the water and glorious late afternoon glow.  When Ash wants to leave a pool to eat, that's a big sign;)  On our way up to the pool earlier, we stopped at the Wilson's market for corn and fresh veggies, and we had crabs waiting in our fridge from my MIL.  I guess they were calling us home!

It was such a nice evening to sit outside too!  Lately, all the nice nights have been when Dave has had to work, or I couldn't go outside, or something, but tonight the stars aligned, if only for a little while, so that we could have dinner on our deck!  Look at how pretty those crabs are...this pic is so cute, I didn't stage it at all, I swear!  The crossword and all, it's hilarious!


Here are Dave & Ashley, all happy to be eating that yumminess.  Yes, we have crabs, corn, hot dogs, burgers, grilled onions, the whole she-bang!


Oh, Did ya catch my "only for a little while" up there?  Yes, well, all good things come to an end.  We were having our very nice dinner together, on a perfect summer evening, when Ash looked down to her left and said - UM.  We didn't know how loaded that UM was!!  She was so calm, but very loud.  In the chair next to her, you can sorta see it in the pic above with the white towel on it, there was a bee's nest the size of my fist just dangling off of it.  Right next to Ashley's leg.  With at least a dozen bees just buzzing around.  YIKES!  That effectively ended our nice night on the deck.  LOL.  Thankfully, we sprayed and dispatched of the nest and no one was hurt.  We recouped with dessert (Snowballs for them, Berger cookies for me) and Harry Potter 1. 

That was a nice day.  Isn't lovely when you can say that?  Thank you Jesus, for a nice day!

August 4, 2012

Ouch, I'm Allergic!


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From the words of Will Ferrell as Robert Goulet (When the bee stings...OUCH I'm ALLERGIC! Except I wasn't stung...) This week has been one of my worse I can remember.  I have joined the millions that have had a random allergic reaction.  I've done a LOT of reading this week about it, and I have read in my research that the probability of these types of attacks are about 15% in a person, as long as their parent does not have the allergy, so I don't want to freak anyone out!

The day after I got home from Europe, I went straight to Express Care to get help for a UTI I'd been living with for about 5 days while we were away.  It was bad infection by the time we returned, and Express Care Rx me an antibiotic called Bactrim which is a Sulfa based drug, and also some other med that turned my pee orange (sorry TMI) this helped the pain of the UTI.  Well, I took this medicine as prescribed from Saturday all the way through the next Saturday and then again on Sunday morning.  About an hour after taking my dose on Sunday, I felt an itch under my wedding rings.  I took them off and put some anti-itch cream on, and thought nothing of it.  Sometimes allergens get stuck there and the skin gets inflamed.  Then, a few hours later, I was getting ready to go out to the store with Ashley when I noticed 3 or 4 more bumps on my left wrist.  I thought I was getting attacked by a mosquito in the house!  Soon after that, I found 10-15 more bumps on the back of my neck.  My hands started to itch like crazy and swell 3 times their size.  Finally I woke Dave up (napped from working) and told him what was going on.  He told me to take benadryl and sleep.

I took his advice, and a few hours later I woke up with a huge top lip.  Seriously, it was bad.  I'm going to bite my pride in the butt and show you, just don't tell me how much you laughed at me because I'm sorta sensitive about it;)  Seriously, I've been crying for days, lol.


I know know, its huge!  My eyes and cheeks too.  Maybe if you don't know me well you can't tell?  I usually don't have much of an upper lip at all...and my face was so super puffy, it's disgusting!


Ok let me help my ego a bit, see?  Here's a nice pic of me in Italy, all happy and non allergic and looking cute, see how small my top lip normally is?  YIKES!


Anyways, we were still thinking it was a weird reaction to mosquitoes at this point, they really love me so it wasn't too weird to think one got in the house somehow during my busy day and attacked me.  We debated going to Express Care, I called my mom to ask her...since we just weren't sure and she said to get the heck up and go!

See?  They look like bug bites?!  This is nothing compared to what was coming, sorry, I have no pics of that part!

Anyways....

Good thing I did go!  I went in there, and of course was an emotional, hysterical mess (because I hate doctors and being sick and being poked and prodded and I had already been there a week ago for the UTI) Dave had to drop Ash off at his moms so he could take care of me and I thought I could handle going in alone at first...lol...poor EC people, I cried all over them!  The doctor there said this was no mosquito attack, I was having an allergic reaction to something.  We went over everything but she said she was 99% sure it was the Bactrim they Rxed me for the UTI.  Allergy to Sulfa drugs is apparently really common.  She told me to keep taking the benadryl, max dose, until the swelling and bumps went away and she gave me a steroid that usually helps with attacks like this.  She checked my heart and breathing and everything, and all was ok, so she sent me home with instructions to rest, take the meds, and get to the ER with any changes.

I can't even imagine what would've happen if we DID NOT go to EC and I would've taken my dose of Bactrim that night.  It was already all up in my system for about 9 days, who knows?!  I drugged myself that night and Dave kept a close watch on me, and everything seem to be fine.

Monday I woke up, drowsy, and still puffy in my hands, it hurt to hold anything...


My hands are not that chubs!  I couldn't (still cant) wear my wedding rings.  I sorta trudged through Monday, Dave ended up calling out of work because I hadn't deflated yet.  We just sat around being lazy, and then after dinner, my body exploded.  Seriously.  I had a few hives on my knees and elbows, and decided to try an oatmeal bath to help the itch.  By the time I got out of the bath, I think I had over 300 hives just all over, it was terrible.  I kept my cool, and just lightly called Dave upstairs to look at me.  We just didn't know what to do?!  Even him being a nurse, was this an emergency?  I could breathe, I could talk, I wasn't hysterical, but I was worried.

We decided to be safe and go.  We couldn't predict if it would get worse later, and it's best not to play around with stuff like that!  We got to the ER and they said it was a good thing I came in.  We waited, and waited, and waited, even though they said that I'd be a fast track back to a room...I was annoyed with every old person with chest pain that came in after me because of course, they took them back right away.  I know, I know...I'm younger and healthier and they could be going into cardiac arrest, but at that point I was so itchy and miserable I couldn't even think straight.

Finally one of Dave's co-workers showed us back to a room and the DR got to me right away.  He said I was having a reaction, he agreed that it was the Bactrim and that I could experience symptoms for days.  He was worried about the hives and asked me if I wanted the fast treatment or the slow.  It was already 1am at this point, and I had had the hives since before 7pm, so of course I picked the quick fix.  Which was the Epipen.  Ouch.  They hooked me up to IV's of stuff, antihistamines and fluids and then jabbed me with the pen.  It didn't really hurt, but it was shocking.  They had to keep me until about 2am to watch my heart, because the adrenaline can do really crazy things to your heart rate, and then they sent me home.  With instructions to keep taking the benadryl and prednisone (steroid) as directed by Express Care and to come back if things didn't get better soon.

 All hooked up!


Home, resting from ER trip #1...I was a hard stick for an IV.  IVs hurt, FYI.  They hurt!  Yes, that big splotch is a huge hive.

Tuesday was better, during the day at least.  I didn't sleep much because of the Epipen.  The site where they stuck me was unbelievably sore, plus adrenaline doesn't let you sleep. But,  I thought things were better!  We even tried to go out that night, to see Batman which we've been dying to see, ready to enjoy a semi-normal night together.  Well, right before we left, I started itching again.  The hives came not too much later, we got as far as the parking lot of Regal and had to come home.  I was too nervous to go out like that.  As the night wore on, I got worse.  More hives, and much more hysterical at that point.  I had only slept maybe 5 hours in the last 36, so you can imagine my state of mind.  I had to keep taking cold showers and bath to help, it was something all the Docs told me to try if it got too bad.  Well, if you didn't know, taking cold showers is hell.  Pure hell.  I ended up freezing on the floor, face down in our room, in front of the fan, sobbing.  Dave told me to take my meds, take the benadryl and try to sleep.  He debated taking me back to the hospital, but I couldn't even talk to him to tell him what I wanted or needed.  He sat with me for a while, rubbing my head like a child and checking on me.  I think I dozed on and off all night, never really achieving anything close to sleep.  He said he heard me scratch all night:/

Next morning, I was still covered in hives that were turning into huge red spots.  This had been the longest bout yet, without any relief from any meds.  I ended back up on the floor face down, sobbing again.  Dave knew it was time.  He tried calling my mom, to say HELP ME WITH THIS GIRL!  LOL.  He really was a trooper.  The itching was so bad, I think I almost overdosed on Benadryl.  I was willing to do anything to get it to stop, and that is bad.  My feet were covered with tons of tiny hives that morphed into one huge one.  Are you itching yet?  LOL.  Dave drove me back to the ER, just as tired as I was, and got my parents on the phone.  Mom showed up ready to fight for me to stay at the hospital.  I was a mess, she was a mess, Dave was exhausted.  The doctor this time around was just as nice, suggested we try all new meds and no Epipen, no quick fixes here.  They hooked me up to all sorts of stuff and really watched me.  They told me they couldn't keep me, usually allergic reactions aren't "admit-able material" or something, unless you can't breathe or something.  But they did keep me for a few hours just to watch.  The new meds helped, almost immediately, and the DR promised she would send me home with all the same stuff, so I would know for sure it would work.  She also Rxed me Ambien for sleep, because as this point I had only 6-7 hours of sleep between Monday am and Wednesday pm. 

Mom drove me home so Dave could go to Target and get my meds and the millions of things we've needed all week but couldn't get out to buy.  I took everything and the hives stayed away, praise the Lord!!  I had my first experience with Ambien, which was definitely interesting!  I react fairly funny to sleeping pills!  It was the best relief I had in days, and I think I was giddy and drugged on NOT itching!!  No scratching!!  Thursday was great, nothing came back, although I had phantom itches all day, there were no red marks, not a one!  Mom and Dad came over to check up on me, Dave got to sleep, his work (the hospital, lol) was so understanding and let him stay home with me all week because he didn't want to leave me unattended after all this, just in case.  Thursday passed, Friday came and besides the effects of the meds, I've been fine.

I'm happy to say I've been hive free since Wednesday night, Dear Jesus I am knocking on wood and saying a millions prayers to keep that the case!  However, the regimen of medications they have me on is terrible.  I'm on a different steroid that has tons of side effects that I have to take a lot, an antihistamine that keeps me awake, anti-nausea meds that keep the pills down, and some sort of Pepcid that is another type of antihistamine, and then the Ambien for sleep.  Until today, I've been terrified to go out in the heat, or take hot baths, or even see people really.  I'm so over emotional, it's not funny.  It's the meds of course, and the trauma that I've been through.  Two ER visits for me is enough for a life time, I really hate hospitals!  But, this week, I honestly didn't want to leave because they helped me feel better, you know that is when I'm really not feeling well!!  Yikes!  All seems to be quiet right now though, and I am enjoying that.  

Anyways, that was my experience with an allergic reaction.  I'm telling you now, if someone wants to put you on Bactrim for antibiotic treatment for infection, ask for something else.  I've heard so many stories about it, it's best to stay away from it.  I'm still scared that it's swimming around in my system after taking it for so long, but as of tomorrow morning it'll have been a week since I've taken it, so hopefully it's gone.  I have a follow up appointment with a PCP on Tuesday, and they will probably refer me to an allergist, so I can be tested for sure for the allergy.

Thanks for everyone who has been commenting, texting, and praying for me.  It wasn't life threatening or even that big of a deal, but to me it was pure misery for a bit!  I can't even explain the feeling of the itching and delirium that it brought about, it was one of the worse things I've ever experienced.  I'm usually not a constant bummer or downer, but this week was so rough!

Things are looking better now and I am looking forward to enjoying my few last weeks of summer, and even looking forward to a new school year.  I'm thankful to be healthy again!  I am also thankful and blessed to have such a wonderful husband who has taken care of me all week and even dealt with my emotions and drama these past few days.  It's been tough but we've gotten through it!!

Cheers to being better, hopefully, and putting this whole nightmare behind me!!  Behind us!

July 30, 2012

European Adventure!

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I meant to be so much better at blogging this summer, what with all my free time and all!  Not so much!  The first half of my summer vacay was full of extra summer work days, and the every other second was dedicated to planning our trip to Europe!  It paid off, of course!  We had an absolute BLAST!  We visited France, Germany and Italy. 

We've had a lot of people ask us, "Who planned your tip?  What travel agent did you use?"  Well, the answer to that is, ME!  Travel agent?  Yeah right, I can totally do this!  How, you ask?  I'll tell you!  I relied very heavily on certain resources for our trip.  The first step was to buy plane tickets, if I could get cheap plane tickets at one point in the summer over another, that would clarify the dates of our trip.  I searched a LOT of sites, every day, for about 3 months!  I used Priceline, Skyscanner, Kayak, Expedia, and even the main websites of airlines like Lufthansa, United, and Air France.  Not only did I research so many different dates for our trip, but I researched departing and arriving and dozens of different airports.  Again, this helped define what our trip would be like.  We knew for sure we wanted to visit France and Italy, so I tried every major airport in those countries.  All place tickets were coming up about $1300 - $1600 a ticket!  Travel in the summer is pricey, but there is no way around it for me.  I only have certain times of the year I can travel, since I work in a school!  So we were gearing up our finances to take a $3000+ hit, just for air travel!  Then, by miracle, one day I searched the combo of flying out of Newark, NJ (about 2 hours from us) and flying into Dusseldorf, Germany, about a 2 hour train ride from Paris.  The price came up as $1380 total.  TOTAL!  I thought I was dreaming!  I entered the itinerary in a few different sites and sure enough, the tickets were coming up at around $600 a ticket.  CHEAPY CHEAPY!  I immediately called Dave and he said, BOOK THEM!  So, we were officially going to Europe in July!  So fun!

As for lodging, I had already decided to use Home Away, so that we could stay in actual apartments in the cities we were visiting.  Home Away is site that lists safe, legit apartments that people own all over the world, that we are able to rent.  I love it!  I don't know if I ever want to stay in a hotel again (except for Disney of course!)  I found our Paris apartment (click here for the link to see it!) and our Lucca, Italy apartment on this site.  They were absolutely perfect for us, great locations, GREAT prices, great all around!  I am homesick for both places already, even though we only spend 4 nights in each.  This allowed us to stay in really nice places, for not a whole lot of money.  I think I paid just around $100/night for each apartment.  Do you know what $100/night gets you in Paris or Tuscany during the summer?  Nothing nearly as nice as these two lovely apartments!  Here are a few pics I snapped...

 

This was the view from our apartment in Paris.  The Eiffel Tower looks far away here from some reason, it is actually closer that that!  What a view!  It's a million dollar view!


Here is Dave in our sitting area, looking into the bedroom.


This is our bedroom in Lucca.  This apartment was really huge!  I only snapped a few pics of the interior, but I have a video too - to be posted later!


 Looking into the bedroom from the main hallway.  So beautiful!

Seriously, we couldn't have made better choices, we were absolutely in love with our apartments, and the owners were so sweet and nice and very helpful!

So, with the plane tickets and the lodging taken care of, we just need to plan how to get to each place, and what to do while we were there.  We mostly used the train in Europe, it's insanely easy to use.  For tickets, I made a lot of my reservations through the country websites, instead of Rail Europe, because their prices were ALWAYS way way WAY more expensive.  So if you are planning a trip, I highly suggest using the website of the country you are traveling in, they always have a language choice so you don't have to navigate in a language you don't know.  I used the German site (the BEST for all timetables around Europe, but you can only book online if Germany is on your itinerary.  I used this site constantly before and during our trip, to look up local train times,) the Italian rail site and the French site (to buy, you have to tell them you live in an obscure European country like Slovakia or something so you get their prices, not Rail Europe.)  It's a lot easier than you think once you get over there too, there are timetables everywhere and lots of helpful people, and hey...if you get on the wrong train it only takes one stop to realize it and you can just hop off and get on another.  We didn't end up getting a Eurail pass because I priced that out versus point to point tickets and for us, point to point was hundreds of dollars cheaper - but you'll need to do that research too, to see if it's the best choice!  We did use one cheap Europe flight to get from Paris to Italy, and that was Easy Jet.  It was $150 cheaper to fly to Pisa then get a train there, and it was much faster too.  Saving money and timing = priceless in Europe!

Each stop was like a launching pad for us.  We explored the cities we stayed in, and eat most of our meals in those places, but almost every day we took a day-trip somewhere!  Here was our complete itinerary, if you are interested!

Day 1: Fly to Europe
Day 2: Arrive, get train from Dusseldorf to Paris.  Enjoy Paris for the evening.
Day 3: Normany - train to Bayeux and D day sites
Day 4: Disneyland Paris
Day 5:  Paris sites
Day 6: Fly from Paris to Pisa, train to Lucca, enjoy Lucca for the evening
Day 7: Lucca all day!
Day 8: Cinque Terre, Italian Riviera
Day 9: Wine tasting in Tuscany
Day 10: Train to Florence, Florence all day, board night train to Dusseldorf
Day 11:  Arrive in Dusseldorf, explore Old Town
Day 12: Fly home!

It was a whirlwind trip for sure, but we saw so much and enjoyed everything we experienced, it was a trip of a life time!  As for what to see and where to stay and sites to visit, I used my favorite travel writer, Rick Steves, for advice.  He tells you the must see stuff in each place, and likes to elaborate on the cool, not-so-toursity-stuff that really makes a big impact.  Like Lucca, the little town we stayed in, it's an off-the-beaten-path that not a lot of tourists know about and O.M.G - I can't believe it's not more popular that it is!  Oh and the Cinque Terre?  You don't know what you are missing!  Most people do miss it too, it's not a hugely popular spot but it's one of the most perfect places I have ever been!  So yes, buy Rick Steves books, you won't regret where he will take you and what he will teach you.  It's like having your own tour guide right there with you!

That is how I planned our trip!  Please ask if you have any questions - I have tons of answers!  For now, I'll just leave you with some pics:

 Paris
 Bayeux
 Omaha Beach
 American Cemetery - D Day
 Disneyland Paris
 Louvre
 Piazza Anfiteatro - Lucca
 Eiffel tower
 Piazza St. Michele - Lucca
 View from Guigini Tower - Lucca
 Vernazza - Cinque Terra
 Cinque Terre
 Cinque Terre
 Ligurian Sea
 Riomaggiore - Cinque Terre
 Riomaggiore
 Florence - Dave posing with replica David

 Florence
 Ponte Vecchio - I bought 2 Pandora charms on this bridge, idk why that is cool, but it is;)
 View from Ponte Vecchio
 Dusseldorf - German bar
 Dave's favorite meal from ALLLLLL that we ate, German meat & potatoes (shaking head)
 Disneyland Paris
 Tuscan Vineyard
 Dusseldorf, last day of our trip!

Hope you enjoyed learning about our travels!  We missed home terribly by the end, but now that we are home we are wondering why we ever came home?!?  LOL!!



June 29, 2012

Weekly Top Ten

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I have so many favorites in the world.  I thought it would be fun to do a Weekly Top 10.  Who knows what sort of crazy top ten lists I can get into?!?  I will start easy on everyone, with movies.  I'm not classifying these as 10 is the least fave and 1 is the all time fave...these are just 10 of my can't-live-without-watching-a-bazillion-times-a-year favorites:

            

1.  Pride and Prejudice (Both versions count.  I love them both)
2.  You've Got Mail
3.  Phantom of the Opera

     
4.  Harry Potter (all 8 movies count - it's one story to me!)
5.  The Princess Bride  (I don't own this on DVD.  I'm headed over to amazon.com as I type to order...shame!)
6.  Tangled (I LOVE THIS MOVIE)

           
7.  RENT
8.  Lord of the Rings (again all of them, it's one story to me)
9.  Breakfast at Tiffanys (anything Audrey really, it's a tough choice!)


10.  Titanic

It's so hard to whittle this list to 10!!  There are so many other movies I just adore, and I feel like I am forgetting some important ones, but these are ultimately my favorites.  I really wanted to fit Julie & Julia on there because I luuuurve that movie, but I just couldn't bump anything else.  Yes, yes, yes, I do love Star Wars and The Little Mermaid and Twister and Mama Mia and Gone with the Wind (etc) but when I compare each to my 10, they do not make me want to change any of them.  It's just me and what I like though, everyone's top 10s are different which is why they are so fun!  Let's get some other movie ideas!  Tell me what you think I am missing, either here or on FB!!

Oh, and yes I do love the Twilight movies, but not nearly enough to be on my top 10.  My top 10 books, however...we'll go to that.  The movies are way to cheese ball for me...but I do enjoy seeing my beloved characters come to life, no matter how intense or weird;)

Freakin Fun Friday!!